Complaining doesn´t serve any good in any situation whatsoever unless you thrive off pity, which inherently means you are in a mindset that isn´t fit for personal growth anyway. Nobody likes a complainer, you will alienate friends and family. “People won’t have time for you if you are always angry or complaining.” – Stephen Hawking A complained assumes the role of victim instead of doer. … Continue reading Why are you complaining?
Don´t complain. Complaining doesn´t lead to anything. And it doesn´t actually matter what your circumstances are, complaining is never the solution. Complaining will never give you solutions to anything, and on top of that, complaining as all sorts of negative side effects, such as putting you in a bad, expectant mindset, and alienate people around you. Instead, take responsibility for the situation, and you will … Continue reading Stop complaining and take responsibility if you want to go further
I am sure that we have all been in the situation where one of our colleagues or employees has lost their enthusiasm for their job and simply comes in and robotically completes their tasks, or worse, deliberately disobeys rules to try and provoke a reaction, all whilst showing a negative or unhelpful attitude. The problem One person displaying such behaviour can be toxic and is … Continue reading How to instantly turn around an employee who is displaying a poor attitude and a lack of motivation
This is actually very simple, yet very difficult. And the main reason why it is difficult is pride. And pride is a complicated thing, as it drives us to do irrational things that aren´t productive in resolving a conflict. Let me ask you, the last time you had an argument or fell out with someone, who´s at fault for it? I am sure it was … Continue reading How to resolve any conflict both personal and professional
One habit at a time, one area of your life at a time. When building new good habits, start with one. And this is not just to avoid overwhelm, but just as much because if you master one new good habit like, say, going to the gym 3 times a week, then chances are that a whole boatload of other good habits will follow, such … Continue reading When building new habits start with just 1, and you will end up with many